2019 1794 lift & tire

Sorry in advance if this has been discussed.
Looking to purchase a 2019 1794. Would like to keep stock 20” wheels. Looking to install a 4” readylift or a 3.5 rough country both come with aftermarket upper control arms. Would like to run 35x11.5 nitro trail grapplers.
So advise or real world info on this set up would be great!
P.S. I prefer to not have the tires stick out of wheel wells, or rub.

 

Some Bilstein 5100's or 6112's (upfront) set at 3" would likely get those tires to fit with minimal issue and less cost (definitely the 5100 setup would).
The ride would be much better also. Tons of enthusiasts on here would recommend UCA's and a differential drop at 3" or higher, and plenty of enthusiasts would say that it isn't necessary.

Guys run 285/75r18's (known as "skinny 35's - which is the size you're going for other than wheel diameter) on the OEM 2" TRD Pro coilovers up front and "stock" height in rear (or some other setup that "levels" the truck using coilovers) without issue other than some mudflap work.

 

Thanks for the input!