2nd Gen Question: Offset, Backspacing

I see a lot of 2nd generation Tundras with aftermarket wheels and such. I see that there are various offsets and backspacings to the different wheels. How in the world did you guys get the aftermarket wheels to fit on the hub? I bought after market wheels with +30 mm offset and they didn't fit. I'm also looking for all black gloss wheels to put on my Tundra. Any advice on the offset issue and black wheel recommendations would be very helpful.

Here's the Tundra. I think black wheels would really bring it all together.

 

Research until you feel like you researched enough then do it some more.

 

You can look on Customoffsets.com

 

SCS or methods only wheels I’ll run